Decisions involving personal growth versus loyalty to others tend to be the hardest. For instance, choosing to leave a job or situation that feels stable but stifling to pursue a riskier, more fulfilling path can be incredibly challenging. The difficulty comes from the tension between prioritizing your own needs and the fear of letting down those who rely on you.
The “why” often boils down to the stakes involved—whether it’s financial security, relationships, or personal identity. Such decisions force us to confront who we are, what we value most, and how we’re willing to navigate the uncertainty that follows.
What about you? Do you have an experience you’re reflecting on?
What If I...? 